Perfect Solution To Problems

Do as to others as you want done to you. When people are bad, and negative and cruel towards you, never allow their deeds to influence your behaviour. Maintain your good nature despite everything . I'm not advocating for stupidity or condoning abuse. I'm saying that one can stay true to him/herself and at the same time have zero tolerance for cruelty.
 It's a shame and error when good people turn bad in a bid to prevent or correct an injustice suffered. Good is to overcome evil, not the other way round. It is double jeopardy when one is treated badly and one also loses one's nature in the process.
You win over evil when you refuse to be corrupted by evil. Fight for your life, right, dignity, happiness, progress, convictions and so on. However do so while maintaining a good and positive disposition.
 Let it never be said that you are as bad as the people that wronged you. Don't ever allow your name, reputation and honour be questioned.  Do all in your power to prevent doing things or reacting to pain or injustice in a way that will drag your name in the mud. You win when you fight good with evil, right with wrong. You win when you don't allow the pain and agony of your experience to change you negatively. You stay strong and indomitable when you resist wrong doing while refusing to do wrong also.
 Life is to be enjoyed and not to be endured!