Sunday 24 April 2016

Stop The Blame Game


Take responsibility for your life and stop the blame game. There will always be people,things, events and circumstances to blame for the wrongs in our lives, until we decide to accept the responsibility for all that occurred to us, we will never be able to let go of the past and make progress in life. To create the future we want, we must take responsibility for that future.
 Stop blaming your country, the government, the economy, your alma mata,  your parents, siblings, family, friends, ex, work place and so on for your problems. Stop seeing the wrongs in others without owning your part of the blame. For your part plays the major role in the occurrence of events. And until you own the responsibility of allowing those occurrences, you'll always be blaming others for your own mistakes. You'll always be playing the victim. You'll not grow, and mature and do better. You'll not take charge as you should and personally see to ensuring that things are the way you want it in your life.
 No one can be more responsible for your life than you are. So there is a problem if you are not responsible for your life. Being responsible for one's life include taking responsibility for the good and the bad. The victories and the failures. The joy and the sorrow. The pains and the gains.
 When things are not working, take responsibility and do your part to make things work. If you are depressed and sad, take responsibility and make yourself happy by doing things and engaging people that makes you happy. When you are broke, take responsibility till your needs are met. Don't play being helpless and hopeless, blaming others for your state. Take responsibility for the change you need. When you need help, take responsibility. When you need new friends, take responsibility. When you need fresh opportunities, take responsibility for getting them.
 At all times, take responsibility for your life and stop wasting your time and resources on the blame game. Lots of love!
 Life is to be enjoyed and not to be endured! 


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