Who Is To Make The Important Decisions In Your Life?

Sometimes we are tempted to delegate to our loved ones the duty of making important decisions in our lives for one reason or another. It could be because we feel overwhelmed, or confused, or indifferent, or we feel that the loved one we are delegating to is better informed or matured than us.
 Whatever may be the compelling reason for wanting to delegate the making of important decisions in our lives, we should not. While it is wisdom to seek advice and counsel from loved ones, professionals and trained personnel, we have to always be conscious of our duty to have the last say over every important decisions in our lives.
 For when all the chips are down, you'll be responsible and accountable for those decisions. You are the one that will bear the consequences of those decisions, whether good or bad. You are the one that will live with those decisions.
 So make your decisions and live the life you believe in. That is when you can say you're living your own life, and not the life of someone else. A life you'll be proud of. A life you will be able to defend and celebrate. For that is when others will be able to celebrate you.
 Life is to be enjoyed and not to be endured!